A controversial essay Jenny Mollen published shortly before her viral Instagram controversy is now drawing renewed attention, with critics arguing that it provides additional context for the backlash surrounding photos she shared with her 12-year-old son. As Buzzfeed notes, the essay, titled " Please. Stay. I want you. I need you. Oh, God, " was published on Mollen's Substack on May 10. In it, the actor reflects on raising sons, describing motherhood as a relationship built around eventual loss and separation. But several passages from the essay have become focal points of debate. "Having boys is a mind f*ck. It builds you up, only to tear you apart," Mollen wrote.…