Reddit user Teen_dream91 asked men of the community, "What are you unable to share fully, openly, and honestly about yourself with your spouse?" Here's what they had to say:

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"The honest level of hatred I have for myself. The fact that I feel like I am not my own person, and I don’t feel like I deserve to be. I live my life for my wife and kids, but not for me. Don’t get me wrong, I love them more than anything, and they’re perfect, but it sometimes gets difficult to live and work for everyone else. I endure these bad feelings for them because they deserve a good life, and I want to give them that, even if that means I live my life feeling like nothing more than a ghost."

— u/Liberteer30

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"Most of my anxieties and insecurities. I learned long ago that the only thing stopping her from 'spiraling' is that she thinks I have a handle on everything.…