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5 Conversation Habits That Make People Love Talking to You — According to Psychologists

Being interesting is overrated. Being interested is the whole game.

Shara Amore

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At my cousin’s wedding in Charleston last spring, I watched my friend Logan do something I can only describe as a magic trick.

He didn’t know anyone except me and the groom.

By the end of the night, the bride’s grandmother had hugged him twice, a bridesmaid had added him on Instagram, and the DJ asked if he wanted to grab a beer sometime.

Logan is not especially funny. He’s not a great dancer. (I have video evidence.) He doesn’t have wild stories.

So I asked him on the drive home, “What is your secret?”

He shrugged. “I don’t know.…