Now that things are somewhat cooling down compared to a few days ago (I don't intend on hurting myself my mind just wasn't in the right place at the time), I finally expressed to my dad that I didn't appreciate how he sent certain information to my mom who abused me. He said something that I think many parents or people (generally older people but younger people can think this too) believe is right, which is to just forgive them and just let it go in order for you to heal. This mentality, in my opinion, is more hurtful than helpful because you can't just let go of abuse. I don't think it's right to tell a person who experienced physical or sexual abuse to just forgive your abuser. Do you guys agree with this point of view