I am 31 and married. I and my husband live in a city about 10 years. I feel so free and happy. I do whatever I want.

As our parents get older, we will face to live with them in a same city. I know I have the responsbility to take care of them, but I am still very terrified. My parents' opinions on the food、life style, etc are very different from ours. They always want me to listen to them. We always argue. What do I do?