Hi everyone, I recently got diagnosed with AUDHD after my break up with my long term ex boyfriend (he broke up with me). I was so high masking I fooled myself! After my diagnosis looking back I realized without a doubt my ex boyfriend also has autism. His brother is autistic. He is also incredibly high masking more than I was. In the relationship we would tease each other all the time when the other would do something we would say “hmm that seems like an autistic trait” we would always brush them off and deny them. Now I realize the reason we broke up is because we both hit something called autistic burnout at the same time. It was bad we were both struggling so bad and we didn’t know why I thought it was my ocd and depression, he thought it was his anxiety. I don’t know what to do I hate carrying this information by myself. It feels like a big cosmic joke. I really want to tell him but I logically know that’s not a good idea.…