Jennifer Lopez took away some important life lessons after her 2025 divorce from actor and director Ben Affleck . The Office Romance star was a guest on the Monday (June 15) episode of podcast SmartLess and spoke about her split from Affleck after three years of marriage. The partnership was Lopez’s fourth marriage and Affleck’s second, taking place nearly two decades after their brief relationship from 2002-2004. The exes reconciled in 2022 nearly two decades after their first engagement, which they broke off months after initially postponing the wedding. “After my last divorce, I just sat there and I canceled my tour and I sat there and I was just like, you need to fucking figure yourself out, ” Lopez said around the 42-minute mark of the episode below. “What is going on with you? Forget about everybody else.…