I’m a cofounder and the CTO of a startup in a fairly niche B2B sector. We started 5 years ago, and have been bootstrapped this entire time. We’ve grown our customer list pretty effectively and have many leads in the works still.

Problem is, I’m super burned out. For 5 years I’ve been putting in 60-70 hour weeks, and it’s really getting to me. To top it off, I feel that my salary is below what I could make as a standard software engineer with my experience. We’ve recently decided to do a proper VC raise, and had a mentorship meeting earlier today to get some guidance. I brought up that one of the things I’d like from the raising capital is to increase my salary, so that I’d be getting market rate. He basically laughed at that idea, and said that there is no respectable VC that would be willing to let a cofounder make market rate pay after only a Series A.…