If you love woman-on-top sex positions—think: reverse cowgirl , Amazon , lotus , and face sitting—then you’ll love this lesser-known position, which we affectionately call “the handful.” It gives you—you guessed it—a handful, as you have easy access to her breasts, and it gives her plenty of space to touch her clitoris or use a toy on herself. Here’s how to do it, and why you should try it with your partner ASAP.

How to Do the Handful Sex Position

The Handful sex position Katie Buckleitner

The penetrating partner sits cross-legged on the bed, and the receiving partner sits down on their lap, facing away from them, taking their penis or strap-on inside them. The penetrating partner lies back, flat on the bed, extending their legs out straight, and the receiving partner lies back too, resting their back on their partner’s chest and bending their knees to plant a foot on the bed on either side of their partner.…