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The Kinky Jockey

How To Do It : Your partner gets on all fours. Find a part on their tail bone that you want to hump, lube it up and grind away.

Pros: This is good for power games. The person on top is using the person on the bottom, which can feel hot for both of you.

Cons: Doesn’t offer super direct stimulation, or mutual stimulation—at least not physically. Use this as part of a whole session to enhance power play.

Switch It Up: Prop a vibrator on their butt and let yourself come while humping them. They’ll be able to hear you and feel you, but not see you.

Make It Hotter: If you want to (consensually!) Dom it up, tug their hair and add a few smart spankings.

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The Lazy 69

How To Do It: Lie side by side facing each other with your face in each other’s crotches for mutual oral.

Pros: Oral for all! Plus this is easier than the more traditional version where one person is on top.

Cons: A literal pain in the neck.…