This reader asks Dear Abby what she should do about her husband and his sister making decisions concerning their home without her input. Viacheslav Yakobchuk - stock.adobe.com

DEAR ABBY: A few years ago, my husband and I bought a home together with his sister. We share the bills and chores and, for the most part, it works. We live in a nicer home than we could afford on our own.

Frequently, though, my husband and his sister have discussions and make decisions regarding the house without including me. I have complained loudly and clearly each time I’ve learned this has happened. I don’t always find out. Usually, they’ll apologize, but the behavior does not change.

We have recently experienced significant damage to the house from a bad storm. Insurance and contractors will be involved. I have already learned about decisions that were made without my input. I think this is highly disrespectful, and I’m ready to move out. I would love your advice.…