We asked the BuzzFeed Community to tell us the moment they realized their marriage was a mistake. Here are responses by the men who shared their stories:

Note: Some submissions come from this Reddit thread.

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"Have you ever been with someone romantically and suggested trying something different in bed, only for their response to be, 'Ew'? Yeah. It wasn't even something warped or crazy. Just different. That was the beginning of the end. After that, she claimed that she wasn't going to be the 'subservient wife' anymore. Apparently, she had always felt like sex was just women being dominated by men. She never seemed to have any fantasies or enjoy anything other than very basic sex. It's sad when a sexless marriage becomes the life you never imagined. I find that divorce is too expensive at my age, and cheating seems like the only option to keep my sanity."

—Anonymous, 60, Male, Texas

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"I found out it was a major mistake. She had an adopted daughter with her ex-husband.…