This post contains mentions of assault.

When you're in a relationship with someone, it's pretty easy to assume they care deeply about you. Unfortunately, that's not always the case for some couples. When Reddit user u/Street_Salt_1973 asked the r/AskWomen community: "When did you realize your partner didn't really care about you?" over a thousand women replied with their own stories. Here's what a few of them had to say below:

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"He cried to me about emotional issues sometimes and I always held him and talked him through it. Eventually, I needed the same support but instead, he got mad and started yelling at and blaming me, and told me, 'One of us has to be the strong one, I can't have a partner who falls apart like this. I need someone strong.'"

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"When he said I don’t enjoy giving you orgasms because then you don’t want to have sex for a few days after that.…