Basically I'm going to be getting an uncontested divorce soon. I filled out most of the paperwork, but I haven't been the day to day finance person in our relationship, just over 13 years with combined finances. When looking at the financial portion I didn't have logins for all of the utilities and bills. I trust her enough to show me and we're planning to keep a shared checking account to move money between us and pay for joint bills like rent and stuff. It's honestly really scary though because I haven't been the daily person in that area, mostly just every 3-12 months we'd talk about our financial state and general goals till either the next year or until something big changed.…