I feel like if you dont cvt yourself, youre not seen as selfharming. If you dont have sIits on your wrists your lying or you want attention. I hate this idea that the media especially pushes. Its one of the reasons I went from punching myself to using razors. My mum (who has found me relpasing multiple times) is one of these people. I love my mum very much but she acts as if not cvting myself means im not still self harming. When we would get in arguments and Id punch myself in the face, she wouldnt really care but when I cvt my wrist im in danger.